To be able to deepthroat consistently, I think you have to practice it and really get that gag reflex under control. I read that each time you brush your teeth, put the toothbrush at the back of your throat for a bit and little by little, get your throat used to the feeling of something being that far back. After a while they say, you mute the gag reflex and once that happens, you should be able to slide that male member down towards your stomach.
I don't know why feeling the cock go deeper into you is so satisfying. Most of your sensation, touch and taste, is in the mouth, but letting him into your throat must be a kind of surrender. Once he is past your gag reflex, he is fully into you. No more barriers and he can deposit his seed deep into you where you can't hold it in your mouth and spit it out after. Its kind of a total submission and acceptance that he can do what he wants and put his sperm where he wants, when he wants. Its also a feeling of accomplishment for the sucker. It is no small feet to get past that gag reflex and creates a sense of pride that you are now one of the few who can take a man's cock all the way in.
I have never had a real cock past my gag reflex. I have not sucked many in my life, but when I did, it was not to the point of gaging. That would have diminished the joy of sucking for me. Still, I would love to try again. If I had a safe and reliable partner who I could meet on a regular basis, I would love to try, over time, to take him into my throat. Imagine a 10 inch but not too thick cock taken all the way down. To feel five inches of man meat enter and slide in and out of your throat while the man moans in pleasure and you feel him sliding along your tongue and through your lips, that would be great.
While most cocks have a mushroom head, I have seen some that have thin heads, smaller in diameter than their shaft, or at least, not much thicker. This would be the kind of cock to begin anal with. The smaller pointed head would part the asshole easier and once that smaller head was past the sphincter and into the bowels, you could slowly work in more and more shaft as the shaft thickens towards the base. I think its the challenge of getting the mushroom past the sphincter that stops people. You need a cock shaped more like a cone so the first part goes in easy and then you just push more in until you reach your limit on that day. Little by little, the limit increases until your ass cheeks are up against his stomach and you can feel his balls slapping yours.
Here is a good head for a virgin ass. Not too fat:
This one would be hard to get in because of the substantial mushroom:
And this is just fucking beautiful:
I watched Bailey Jay as she moved from skinny trans with no boobs to pornstar with augmented boobs. Such a nice cock and so feminine. Seems like a really nice person and I would so like to fuck her.
We all just need a safe friend to play with. Where are they all hiding. I have reached out to a bunch of people on doublelist who sounded like they wanted what I wanted, but the converstations always die quickly as guys act on an impulse and then fail to follow through. I guess I just have to keep trying.