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I'm going through a really strange phase, lately...

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For whatever reason, over the past few weeks, I've had ZERO desire to interact, sexually, with men. It's odd. It's like a switch suddenly flipped. What is so odd is that I was having such a great time, before. Has anyone else experienced this phenomenon?

I still like to watch video of orgies (bi, and gay) and I especially love outdoor cruising vids, but the desire to actually engage, myself? Gone.

it's frustrating because, where I live, I can find all the action I want. I kinda miss the wanting part.
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Sexual feelings are so complex. They can turn on and off so quickly. I find that health, emotional issues going on around the home, and other factors can change my level of sexual desires immensely. Attractions too. Sometimes something really turns me on and other times, not at all. I can't explain it.
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These things happen. It's possible that you're undergoing hormonal changes, such as reduced testosterone levels. Other medical problems are possible.
It could also be emotional matters, or just a passing phase. Have some blood tests taken, and if they come out normal, don't worry too much about it. It shall pass..
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I think what you have described is a normal thing for a man to feel. I have times where sex is not such a powerful desire, and I think it is aging, and the thrill of gay sex ebbs for a while, for some reason the tremendous lust disappears and I hate those times.

My strange times are not frequent, but the mind can't stay aroused due to overload of cock thoughts. Not 24/7/365. Just not possible in my opinion.
Glad you shared your feelings on this.
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I go through phases, sometimes years not even thinking about cock. Right now I want to fuck everything that moves. Male, female, young, old. I’d love to fuck an old granny. Give her the time of her life and fill up that old pussy with a load! I hope you get back to feeling normal soon!
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I go through phases. I can be incredibly attracted to men and have a burnign desire for cock only or flip to only wanting women. Then therrs the other phases of wanting sexual contact vs not being interested at all. When both these phases are in synch I'm like a super hormonal teenager, desperate to get my rocks off no matter what the consequences, and other times iI simly could not really give any fucks at-all.

As mentioned above it could be hormonal, it could be because there are stresses on you that may be causing a dip in your libido or it could be something related to health. If it continues, then get yourself checked out.

FYI I am currently in a super-hormonal totally bi state, so if it moves I'll be all over it ... better brace yourselves... ;)
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