Introduce yourself

[Conoflex]

Hi I'm Des
57married for over 30years but since menopause wife has lost all interest in sex , starting having urges relating to an episode with the boy who lived next door in my youth , he seduced me in his sister's clothing for more of what happened pm me ,thank you

[Don Williams]

Welcum

[AlterEgo66]

66 years old. Newly divorced after 20 years. Interesting to hear so many in my generation here. I’ve been on LIT for a very long time as someone else. Still. Over 11,000 posts over the years. 9000+ reaction score. But my divorce and the circumstances that led to it have given me the motivation to admit aloud what I’ve known for some time. I am bisexual. My ex knew because we discussed our mutual urges. Our needs as a couple. Tried swinging. Agreed to bring another into our marriage. Male or female. The idea of cleaning her cream from a stiff cock aroused me so much. As much as she said eating my cum from another woman’s sex. Then the pandemic shut everything down. No in person meetings. No clubs. Nothing. The intensity died there. Pretty much so did the marriage. She’d been ambivalent towards sex all along. Played along because it was what she thought I wanted. But truly, she is a lesbian. It just took 20 years to admit it.

Those 20 years are equal to the difference in our ages. She is now the age I was when we first met. But I cannot leave it alone now that I am. Still fascinated with the female sexuality. Making a woman cum is one of life’s wonders. But I stroke my cock to as much male cock sucking as FFM/MMF porn. So there it is. I will not comment on other LIT activity, btw. But I will no longer ignore my need to enjoy coaxing a cock to orgasm. Swallowing a hot load. Fucking a male mouth, or…..

maybe this one isn’t my ALTER ego.

I will PM about my urges. If anyone is in need as well.

[Don Williams]

maybe this one isn’t my ALTER ego.

I will PM about my urges. If anyone is in need as well.

Welcum, AlterEgo66.

[Biguy2000]

Hi,

I'm Starr. I live in the northeastern Ohio/western Pennsylvania area, about halfways between Cleveland and Pittsburgh. I've spent a good bit of time in New York City and southern California on business, also.

I'm a crossdresser and male to female transgender woman. I also self-identify as androgynous and pansexual. I'm in my sixties now, and up until my mid-thirties I was a very straight guy, high school and college athlete, infantry officer,grad school, professional, father, and sandlot baseball coach, up until the 1990's, when I was having issues with my wife, and got into the habit of late night web surfing. I was on the early computer and clicked onto the page of a crossdresser. She wasn't super-feminized, just an unusually pretty male wearing makeup, a wig, heels, and an androgynous body. There are so many fabulously pretty transgender models and porn stars on the internet nowadays that this girl wouldn't even be noticed, but in that era her photos and text transfixed me, and I became obsessed with transgender women. As stated, my wife and I were having issues, and she was living her life hanging-out with her girlfriends, and I pursued my obsession to the point where, in the role of Male Admirer, I was dateing and having sex with transgender girls. Eventually, I became curious about whether I would be pretty and sexy as a girl, and dipped my toe in the water by acquiring a wig, a bunch of makeup, and female clothes. I began dressing for myself at home, and developed the very typical transgender girl's habit of taking lots of photos of myself. nude and clothed. I also let my hair grow longer, shaved most of my body hair, and started to change my workouts at the gym so that I was more involved with sculpting my body to emphasize a thinner waist and fuller buttocks. There is a name for this process, "The Drift," which describes a slow movement towards feminization. The transgender women I was dating all seemed to enjoy being fucked by me as much or more than I was enjoying my half of the activity, and naturally I became curious, and that led to dildos and butt plugs and toys, which in turn helped me discover what the ladies were enjoying. All in all, it took me about three to four years from the initial discovery of the world of transgender women on the early internet to the point where I had my first sex date where I sucked a man''s cock and let him fuck me. I expected it to be a transcendental experience and it was! It made me realize what I am, and helped set me on a journey to a place where I have accepted myself, and have tried to go ahead with life and not look back. No regrets, no retreat, no surrender.

I did get divorced, and have been living alone, albeit with frequent contact with people in my straight life, for twenty plus years. The single status has been good for me, and I've done a lot of crazy things, have had a lot of fun, and have lived through a few scary times, too. I've never come out to family, friends, or business associates because of financial considerations primarily. I am getting to the age where I'm considering retirement and moving to someplace where I can live full-time as a woman among people who don't know the masculine side of me, and wouldn't care even if they did. I had been thinking Florida, but the anti-LGTBQ politics there have made me reconsider.

Sexually, because that's what this forum is about, I've had relations with probably around fifty men since the first experience. I have been picky, and have probably had at least as many guys whom I've met and chatted-up, and then shaken hands with them and walked away. I acceept that men tend to objectify women, but a depressing number of fiftyish-sixtyish males look at trans-women as something akin to a thrill ride at Cedar Point! Not going to happen with me, sweetie! Anyway, moving on, all of the dieting and exercising paid off, and I got down to 150 pounds on a 5-11 frame, and even at my age still look attractive when I'm freshly shaved, made-up, and get my hair extensions and my mid-back natural pony tail combed properly together. (Guys love to pull the pony tail and get aggressive when they're riding me from behind) Many of the men with whom I've had sex were one night stands, but most were local people with whom I've had 2-3-4-5 trysts, and a select few are in the FWB//fuck-buddy category. I haven't had sex witth a woman for almost that entire time since my first man, and here's the funny thing: In my lifetime I've never had a true gay sex encounter. Every time I've been intimate with a person with a penis either one or both of us were presenting as a transgender female. That fact notwithstanding, I am fascinated by cocks, and love to watch videos and slide shows of engorged penises. I must admit that I'm horny as the dickens right now, because I had very little social life during the covid pandemic, and things are still pretty slow in a lot of the alternate bars and clubs in this area.

If anyone on the forum has gone through a similar process, or considered it, hit me up if you'd like to chat or correspond.

Hugs and Kisses to all!

Theoretically, pansexual means sex with others regardless not only of gender, but of species (Rishathra, anyone? or beyond...).

[Biguy2000]

I have been picky, and have probably had at least as many guys whom I've met and chatted-up, and then shaken hands with them and walked away. I acceept that men tend to objectify women, but a depressing number of fiftyish-sixtyish males look at trans-women as something akin to a thrill ride at Cedar Point! Not going to happen with me, sweetie!

I just wanted to comment, here, because I may fall into that category, just a bit.

In defense of middle-aged men who are fascinated with and possess a STRONG sexual attraction to trans (specifically) women:
I find that trans women, who really work to present as feminine, tend to look more "feminine" and alluring than many cis women, because they pay attention to every detail, in their appearance. If like most of us, in this group, one has developed an appreciation for cock, but maintains an attraction to cis women, PHYSICALLY, you really are (in my mind) "the best of both worlds. Additionally, if my sexual experiences with cis men are any indication, adding the "feminine" into the equation would surely indicate that you might just be a "thrill ride."

As a "BBC" (I really HATE the term - but that's how I'm viewed, among the men on the sites - and every white girl I've ever met - Same with "daddy." So be it. Somebody's gotta do it.), I have lived my entire life with a degree of fetishization, as do blondes, girls with big asses, big tits, and ginger carpet that matches the drapes. Those traits - all fetishes, to some degree - serve to do no more than open doors - the woman who became my wife was curious. If the goal is sex, the fetish (at least for me) is a feature. If the goal is a relationship, a focus on the fetish is something of a let-down.

I REALLY want to have sex with a beautiful, "passing" trans woman. I want to take her out on a date, then take her home, then have the ride of my life, but I cannot EVER have a relationship with her, because I'll be married to the love of my life until one of us drops. If I outlive my wife, then the rules will change. Until then, the only option for me is "thrill ride."

To put the cherry on top of this, Cedar Point Park is still on my bucket list. I'm going to ride ever coaster, in that sumbitch! Every time I drive through Sandusky, I want to get off (the highway). When my grandson is 10 (July 2024) I'm ticking that one off. Wanna be my second tick?

I know of 3 different kinds of "BBC"s, my favorite being the kind you profess not to be like being called, but then, I'll take any size or color. The important thing is the "C" part.
My least favorite BBC is the British Broadcasting Corporation, for various reasons...

[Don Williams]

I know of 3 different kinds of "BBC"s, my favorite being the kind you profess not to be like being called, but then, I'll take any size or color. The important thing is the "C" part.
My least favorite BBC is the British Broadcasting Corporation, for various reasons...

[Mojo]

Hi all. Thanks Don for helping to arrange this group of very similar guys. I really hope this leads to some great fun, real or imagined. I’m a 55 yr old MWM from North Virginia , 155 lbs, 5’9”, shaved smooth all over. I’ve been dressing up since I was a child and continue to do so in the closet; so wife has no idea. I love women but love cock more. I dress up fully whenever I have the chance and love to go out in public when possible; not passable but seem to attract good attention from men. I’m currently seeing another MWM around my age in the neighborhood. I’m his sissy cocksucker when his wife is away at work. He is fairly recent, but prior to him I saw another neighborhood guy on a regular basis for 6 years until he moved away. Although my current guy also loves to fuck me, he hasn’t shown interest in me dressing like a gurl for him. My ultimate fantasy is to be someone’s mistress. I would even consider transitioning if I found the right man.

[Don Williams]

Welcome. It has gone pretty quiet around here, for the past month or so. Hopefully, things will pick up.

I'm intrigued that you are able to find actual companions so close to home. How do you keep it discrete?

[Mojo]

It’s not very easy. I use a storage space for my gurl clothes and can only dress up when the wife is out of town. She doesn’t question me shaving smooth all over because I just say I think it’s more comfortable. I usually meet up with the nearby neighbor on Tuesday and/or Thursday at his place while the wife is a work. So doable with some advanced planning