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I am not a violent person. In fact, I would probaby be described by most as a pacifist and someone who would never hurt another living thing, and yet sometimes I watch violent porn and it excites me.

I don't know why I sometimes get aroused by images and videos that would appaul me if they were happening in the real world, but when I know its a movie and the people in them are willing participants, then the guilt of watching can be pushed aside and I guess its the absolute power one person has over another that makes me excited.

Wondering if anyone else gets turned on by violent sex from time to time.

I can on occasions. You're right that the consent is vital and it takes all sorts! Look at us

As a sub by nature I find the relinquishing of control a real turn on. The boundaries are known so it's a safe yet interesting power play. Pushes you to places you want to go but need to be forced. Complicated but highly exciting

I had a guy over to my house once who wanted to be handcuffed. I stripped him naked, blindfolded him put him on a chair, and handcuffed his hands behind his back. He brought over some playboy magazine or something like that. I stripped naked, looked at the beautiful girls in the magazine, walked around the chair, and rubbed the tip of my hard cock on his face and around his mouth. He was not intending to, but he lost control and took my unprotected cock into his mouth. He sucked me to the point of cumming and then I shot my load onto his chest. He didn't want to cum then. He said he would take care of himself later.

We only met the one time, but it was one of the more satisfying MM encounters I had.

PeterWatson wrote: ↑Wed Jul 05, 2023 12:45 pm I had a guy over to my house once who wanted to be handcuffed. I stripped him naked, blindfolded him put him on a chair, and handcuffed his hands behind his back. He brought over some playboy magazine or something like that. I stripped naked, looked at the beautiful girls in the magazine, walked around the chair, and rubbed the tip of my hard cock on his face and around his mouth. He was not intending to, but he lost control and took my unprotected cock into his mouth. He sucked me to the point of cumming and then I shot my load onto his chest. He didn't want to cum then. He said he would take care of himself later.

We only met the one time, but it was one of the more satisfying MM encounters I had.

While I don't, as yet, have any interest in violent porn, I've found, on Sniffies, a surprising number of people who are into rape scenarios or (one that is oddly intriguing to me) sleep-play, and other things that are far more extreme. I can, certainly, see myself being the dom in a bondage/"rape" scenario, under the right circumstances. I am DEFINITELY hoping to do the sleep scenario. That would be something cool to do, late-night, returning from work, some night. People are into some surprising things. That 19 year-old had me choke him - which was kinda cool, considering he out-weighed me by 50 pounds. I had another younger guy who wanted me to find him in a short skirt and spank his bare behind. He actually spooked me, a little. He begged like a little bitch.

When someone has a kink and likes to be choked, spanked, spit on, humiliated, bound, or some other unusual behavior, it not rediculous to think that this person is potentially 'different' or more cynically 'damaged' in some ways. I beleive this is not the case for most people and they can keep their kink in a box and take it out at playtime and be perfectly normal the rest of the time. I think I am like that. But for those few who truly are different, it makes you fearful that it is harder to predict what they might do in different scenarios and being unpredictable can be equated to being dangerous.

So when someone tells me about a kink they have that is a little on the extreme side (more like choking to unconciousnes as opposed to wearing women's clothing), it makes me cautious and I want to get to know this person a lot better before trusting them with anything that could be used to harm me.

I think this is just human nature and not necessarily prejudice. People have to protect themselves and that is why we feel most comfortable with people and situations we know. We have a better ability to forsee what is coming and how to deal with it.

Not real hard violence, but I do find a "forced sex" scenario can be a big turn on for me, particularly with a woman forcing her intentions on, or simply sexually abusing another woman, or sometimes a man. I find videos of forced/involuntary facesitting/cunnilingus very hot, whether the "victim" is male or female.

It's not exactly violent, but it is non-consensual and there is sometimes violence in the opening act - for years my favorite Literotica author was Christie052780 - most of her stories are about a woman who's totally lost control of her situation and is at the mercy of her assailant's erect cock.

The pregnancy risk in her stories adds to the loss of control and makes her stories a delightful read -- if you're into that.

Nope, zero interest.

PFWilly wrote: ↑Sat Jul 08, 2023 3:56 pm Nope, zero interest.

Me too. I dont mind a bit of roleplay, but personally I dont get any joy in any kind of forced dominance or humiliation. Maybe I am a bit too vanilla...

BrokenQuill wrote: ↑Mon Jul 10, 2023 7:32 am

PFWilly wrote: ↑Sat Jul 08, 2023 3:56 pm Nope, zero interest.

Me too. I dont mind a bit of roleplay, but personally I dont get any joy in any kind of forced dominance or humiliation. Maybe I am a bit too vanilla...

That’s fine by me, vanilla is delicious. Especially when served directly from the source!