My daughter dated a MTF trans girl and, other than the fact that she was very masculine, regarding territorial behavior, they got along quite well because my daughter didn't fetishize her. (Secretly, though, I always wanted to ask her to show me her hormone tits -- but I didn't)
The sex, on the other hand, was problematic, because she hadn't had bottom surgery and was not comfortable with her genitalia. Because she considered herself a lesbian and my daughter identifies as straight, therefore disinterested in using a strap-on, they just didn't have sex.While I have friends who have MTF trans friends, almost all of those have hang-ups about men who fetishize them. One of them actually does porn shoots for PureTs and cam shows on Chaturbate, but cannot find a compatible partner due to her hang-ups about being viewed as a sex -object.
How does one get past the psychological drama long enough to connect with the person?