How Many Would Do this, If You Could - Receiving or Giving

[Don Williams]

If there were no risk, I'd find one of these, at least weekly and, happily, add to their tally. There are several active area cumdumps within 30 miles of me, who schedule opportunities, weekly but, for obvious reasons, all I can do is dream. NGL, I think guys who do this are a something of a blessing. It is, sort of, a passion project, for them.

My first two encounters with a man were similar scenarios. The first was a blowjob, at someone's home. You just showed up at the posted address, and walked in the door. You could choose head or anal (very fit, older black man) but you couldn't touch him. The second (my first ever anal, with a man) was a cumdump, at a hotel. Both were unbelievably tension-free. The guilt and fear, the day after the second one, was almost overwhelming. The week after the STD and HIV tests that followed was debilitating. I can't erase the memories of the actual experiences from my mind, though. The second guy was so appreciative, I couldn't believe it. I wanted to go back, until the fear killed the vibe. He was on PREP, but who knows about the ones who came before me. No lube needed, there.

[PeterWatson]

If there were no risks, I would like to try both roles at different times. I will bet many members here would.

[Writer_FM]

Too much risk for me.

[Nething4luv]

I don't think I could ever do it in the cum dump situation, but I do have the desire to try both the giving and reveiving.

I would have to know and trust the other person in order to go through with it, and that takes some time to develop.

[BrokenQuill]

Whilst I would love the idea of being used in that manner, it would have to be by someone I knew well. The idea of a total stranger fucking me like that just doesnt work for me.

[PFWilly]

Whilst I would love the idea of being used in that manner, it would have to be by someone I knew well. The idea of a total stranger fucking me like that just doesnt work for me.

I wholeheartedly agree. I’ve had several encounters with men, all oral, and in most cases it was a reciprocal event. But, I’ve only gone down that road with gents that were either long term friends, or guys I took the time to know fairly well before gettin down to the fun stuff. Never with complete strangers.

I fantasize often about getting fucked long and deeply, but doubt that will ever happen.

But ya gotta have a dream, right?

[PeterWatson]

I am sure you could meet some good friends here on the board to have that trusted relationship with, but not someone who lives close enough to really get together with. That's the problem with internet based relationships. You could be 1000 miles apart to turning a virtual relationship into a physical one is often impossible. Too bad. There are a number of guys I have met here that I would have coffee with.

[PFWilly]

Exactly! I’ve been on the Silverdaddies website for many moons. The gents who seem most compatible, are ALWAYS on the other side of the country. Frustrating Mystery of Life as a Bisexual. LOL

[Don Williams]

I am sure you could meet some good friends here on the board to have that trusted relationship with, but not someone who lives close enough to really get together with. That's the problem with internet based relationships. You could be 1000 miles apart to turning a virtual relationship into a physical one is often impossible. Too bad. There are a number of guys I have met here that I would have coffee with.

On the other hand, the risks involved in having these types of relationships, too close to home, are too numerous to mention.

I've come to the conclusion that men "can't find opportunities" is more self-inflicted than not. Opportunities for men to have sex with other men are more plentiful than opportunities for men to have sex with women. For good reason, it is mitigating the risk that keeps people apart. I'm blown away by the number of "discreet" men on the apps.

[Kellieskirttoo]

If no risk we'll the bend me over flip up my skirt or put.me on my knees and let's have some fun I am sure there would be point that I would be so done but what away to find out where that limit is and as we said at the beginning if the was no risk lol